Getting Ready for the Heavenly Joy


In Matthew 25:1–13, our Lord Jesus Christ speaks to us through the parable of the ten virgins—a parable both beautiful and deeply serious, revealing the mystery of the kingdom of heaven.

When the Bridegroom came, Jesus said,

“Those who were ready went in with Him to the wedding feast, and the door was shut.” (Matthew 25:10)

These simple yet profound words—“those who were ready”—hold the key to our eternal destiny. The wedding feast symbolizes the heavenly joy, the eternal life prepared for those who love God. But to enter that joy, we must be ready.

Readiness, however, is not achieved in a single moment. It is a lifelong journey—a way of life that begins with baptism and continues in faith, purity, humility, love, forgiveness, service, perseverance, and watchfulness.

Let us reflect together on the qualifications for entering the heavenly joy, as revealed by our Lord in His teachings and affirmed by the saints of the Church.


1. Baptism — The Beginning of New Life

Our readiness for heaven begins with baptism. Jesus told Nicodemus:

“Unless one is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.” (John 3:5)

Baptism is our spiritual birth—the moment when the old life ends and the new life in Christ begins. In baptism, we become children of God and heirs of His kingdom.

“For all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ.” (Galatians 3:27)

Through baptism we are clothed with Christ Himself—our wedding garment for the heavenly banquet. That is why, in the parable of the wedding feast, the king cast out the man without a wedding garment (Matthew 22:11–14).

St. John Chrysostom beautifully said:

“Through baptism we put on Christ Himself, so when the Father looks at us, He sees His Son.”

Baptism is not the end of readiness—it is the beginning of the journey toward eternal joy.


2. Faith Expressed Through Obedience

Baptism introduces us into the life of faith, but true faith must be lived through obedience.

The Lord said:

“Not everyone who says to Me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but he who does the will of My Father.” (Matthew 7:21)

Faith is not a word we speak but a life we live. The wise man builds his house on the rock by hearing and doing the Lord’s words (Matthew 7:24).

To believe in Christ means to follow Him daily—to live in obedience to the Father’s will.


3. Purity of Heart

The Lord Jesus said:

“Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.” (Matthew 5:8)

A pure heart is like a clear window through which the light of heaven shines. When our hearts are clouded by anger, pride, or impurity, we cannot see God or feel His peace.

Purity does not mean we never fall—it means that when we fall, we rise again through repentance and confession. Each time we repent, the Holy Spirit restores our heart’s light.

St. Athanasius teaches:

“A pure heart is a temple where the Holy Spirit dwells and reveals the Father.”

Let us pray each day with the psalmist:

“Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within me.” (Psalm 51:10)


4. Humility and the Childlike Spirit

The Lord said:

“Unless you are converted and become like little children, you will not enter the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:3)

Humility is the key that opens heaven’s gate. To become like a child is to trust, forgive, and live simply—without pride or bitterness.

“Whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.” (Matthew 18:4)

The humble depend fully on God; the proud depend only on themselves. Pride shuts the door to grace, but humility opens it wide.

Our Lord invites us:

“Learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart.” (Matthew 11:29)


5. Love and Mercy

The kingdom of heaven is the kingdom of love.

“Come, you who are blessed of My Father… for I was hungry and you gave Me food.” (Matthew 25:34–35)

On Judgment Day, Christ will not ask how much we knew, but how much we loved. Every act of mercy—feeding the hungry, visiting the sick, comforting the brokenhearted—is service to Christ Himself.

St. Gregory the Great said:

“Charity is the key of heaven; without it, faith is dead and hope is empty.”

Love in action is the truest sign of readiness for the heavenly joy.


6. Forgiveness

The Lord Jesus said:

“If you do not forgive others, your Father will not forgive your trespasses.” (Matthew 6:15)

Heaven is a place of peace, and only a forgiving heart can enter it.
Christ forgave even those who crucified Him, saying, “Father, forgive them.” (Luke 23:34)

When we forgive, we open our hearts to receive God’s mercy. Holding grudges darkens the soul; letting go of them fills us with the peace of the Father.


7. Fruitfulness and Faithful Service

“Well done, good and faithful servant… enter into the joy of your master.” (Matthew 25:21)

Each of us has been given talents—time, gifts, and opportunities. To be ready means to be fruitful—to love, to serve, to give, to help others grow in faith.

If we live selfishly, our lamp grows dim; but if we live for God and others, our light burns brightly until He comes.

Faithful service prepares the soul for eternal joy.


8. Perseverance and Endurance

“The one who endures to the end will be saved.” (Matthew 24:13)

The road to heaven is narrow and filled with trials. But those who persevere in faith will receive the crown of life.

St. Paul testified:

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” (2 Timothy 4:7)

Every cross carried with love will shine as a crown in heaven. Perseverance is the mark of a soul ready for eternal joy.


9. Watchfulness and Readiness

“Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.” (Matthew 25:13)

The wise virgins were ready because they kept their lamps burning—their faith alive, their hearts pure, and their lives filled with good works.

To be watchful means to live each day as a sacred gift: repenting, praying, loving, and serving, so that whenever the Lord comes, He may find us ready.

St. Cyril of Jerusalem reminds us:

“Keep your lamp ever bright; the Bridegroom may come when you think not.”


10. Living Communion — The Eucharist: Foretaste of Heaven

“Blessed are those servants whom the master will find awake when he comes.” (Luke 12:37)

The Eucharist is not merely a sacrament—it is a foretaste of heaven.
Each time we receive the Body and Blood of Christ, we are united with Him and renewed by His Spirit. The Eucharist prepares us for the eternal wedding banquet with the Lamb.

Every Liturgy is a rehearsal for eternity—a glimpse of the joy that awaits the faithful.


Conclusion — Clothed and Ready for the Feast

Beloved, the wedding garment of heaven is the soul clothed in Christ—baptized, purified, humble, loving, forgiving, and faithful to the end.

Readiness begins with baptism, grows through obedience, is adorned with purity, humility, and love, and is perfected through perseverance and communion.

Let us keep our lamps burning and our hearts open, so that when the Bridegroom comes, we may hear His blessed words:

“Well done, good and faithful servant… enter into the joy of your Lord.” (Matthew 25:21)


Closing Prayer

Heavenly Father,
Fountain of mercy and Giver of every good and perfect gift,
we thank You for calling us to the wedding feast of Your Son.

Grant us, O Father, the grace to be ready for His coming.
Keep our lamps burning with faith, hope, and love.
Cleanse us by Your mercy, clothe us with the righteousness of Christ,
and fill us with the joy and power of Your Holy Spirit.

When the Bridegroom returns in glory,
may You find us faithful, watchful, and rejoicing in Your presence.
Receive us into the everlasting joy of Your kingdom,
that we may dwell with You forever and glorify Your holy Name.

Through Jesus Christ, Your Son, our Lord and Savior,
with whom You are blessed, together with the Holy Spirit—
one God, now and forever. Amen.

Hegumen Abraam Sleman
frsleman@CopticChurch.net

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